4 thoughts on “My girlfriend must buy a diamond ring, otherwise I won't get married. Should I compromise?”
Nathaniel
Oh, this is a good question. Let's analyze it first. Marriage is very sacred. For women, she wants to entrust this man forever. Her feelings are very delicate Then, do girlfriends must buy this brand of diamond ring or buy a expensive diamond ring? There will be essential differences. If we confuse right and wrong, we may cause unnecessary disputes. If you must buy this brand, then she really likes this brand. The same brand is expensive and cheap. You can choose according to your own strength. Just hobby.
If you must buy an expensive object as a wedding gift, this will also listen to her heart. Generally speaking, the two finally become a family, and life is to live together. Buying a luxury object that exceeds her family purchase ability. For women, it may be more considered. I think of things that protect their living standards in the future, such as buying a house, buying a car, etc. Of course, if you really think about it in the future, men should think so. Buying it is the two of you. Do n’t you think of going together? So she wants to buy luxury goods that have been paying than your ability to pay so much. Do you also want to see your sincerity about her, is it not good enough to make her feel at ease with you. Of course It is impossible to give her a sense of security, and only you can give you a sense of security, so pay more attention to your lover, and think more about your future. Your life is not just such a thing. If Just such a thing must endure each other, so there will be a lot of tolerance. Communication is the best medicine, not a blind compromise.
For his girlfriend, you must buy Tiffany's diamond ring, otherwise there is three levels of problems without getting married. The first level is also the lowest problem. That is the economic situation in your family. When a friend buys Tiffany, then you must compromise this, and you must pick a big one. The research practice of the second level of problems is to stand in the middle. Your economic situation does not meet Tiffany's standard, but you can get a little bit hard to grit, then you also need to compromise. The most serious problem in the third point is that the economic level of your two is the level of ordinary families, and the Tiffany ring that girlfriend wants to make you be a cow and a year, or more. I don't think this is this. It should be compromised. Although getting married is a lifetime, it is unnecessary to spend such expensive money to reach a height of a luxury item. I feel that I feel that it is reasonable. You and your girlfriend can easily change your thoughts for so long. One way is that you take a thing that equates the same price with Tiffany's diamond ring. After comparison She knows that the value of this diamond ring has been reduced, making him feel that it is not worth the price to buy a diamond ring. The other is to say that he has a wish, saying that we are very difficult to buy Tiffany's economic situation now, but after three o'clock, what standard I reaches one of the standards, I will definitely make you a diamond ring. At least it is a bracelet to satisfy such a wish of his wife. If that the above two methods are not available, your girlfriend is to insist on buying Tiffany diamond rings, otherwise you will not get married, beyond your two economic levels, I think there is a delay, that is, you also pretend to be pretended , Very tough attitude. I showed that I did not buy a diamond ring for you, but said that the price of this diamond ring had exceeded the ability of our family. I can earn 60,000 yuan each year. Money should buy a diamond ring, this should not be a life attitude. I think your girlfriend will definitely be considerate of you. Buying one good, this is understandable, but also look at the actual situation. And what I want to say is that if you have compromised this time, you are in your family, I am afraid that there will be a lot of places to compromise in the future.
I think when my girlfriend proposes to my boyfriend to buy a diamond ring as a premise of marriage, in fact, it is indispensable for girls. For many girls, they also have their own circle of friends and good girlfriends. When friends are together, girls will inevitably mention their boyfriend, and if you are married She did not have a diamond ring, which was a more embarrassing thing for girls. Even if the relationship between the two of you is better, it is the matter between the two of you, there is no way to describe outsiders. So it is normal for your girlfriend to have a diamond ring, so that at least when chatting with friends, there will be nothing to say and not embarrassed. As a boy, you may think that this is a girl's vanity, but in fact, it is not. Think about it. According to an example, as a Sina, when the bride did not prepare a new suit for you when you got married, let you wear a suit you usually wear to the wedding scene. So what will your mood be? It must be uncomfortable. The same scene can also be used on girls. As a quasi -bride but did not receive a diamond ring prepared by his husband, even if you prepared other platinum wedding rings alive, but at the scene of the exchange ring at the wedding, the camera will take your ring at that time Entry. At that time, there is a shiny large diamond ring, or even a small diamond ring, but it is always much better than not. I. As a girl, I think this requirement is not too much. You can talk to your girlfriend, even if you can only buy a small small diamond ring, it is much better than no.
In fact, I can understand that your girlfriend must buy Tiffany diamond ring, otherwise the behavior of not getting married is actually really acceptable, because after all, every girl may have fantasized this matter, it may be for you for you This is a bit unrealistic, but in fact, it is quite important for girls, because after all, everyone has imagined that the day of marriage will become a princess, so this diamond ring is very important for girls. Really, it is really. It just shows you love her, and then if you do n’t, I think he may be a little disappointed, because after all, the film and television drama that everyone has seen from childhood to big, or cartoon, as long as you are married, you will wear a diamond ring right. Let's, I think she can actually understand the behavior of her diamond ring, but Tiffany seems a bit expensive, right, he may want the best, but if your financial ability cannot satisfy her. I think tell him frankly, and then tell her, you can't buy Tiffany diamond ring, and then you ask if he can buy one thing. I think if he really loves you, She will not make you difficult to make you too difficult, and then I think that the diamond ring of any brand is okay. He should feel very happy. If you love her enough, in fact, it is important to have that form. Is it really not important to Tiffany! If you do this. If she still does not get married without Tiffany's diamond ring, I think the two may really come to the end, because after all, the biggest concession has been made. Right, I think this matter may require two people to achieve an agreement. If he can't even compromise this, it may be more difficulty in the future.
Oh, this is a good question. Let's analyze it first. Marriage is very sacred. For women, she wants to entrust this man forever. Her feelings are very delicate Then, do girlfriends must buy this brand of diamond ring or buy a expensive diamond ring? There will be essential differences. If we confuse right and wrong, we may cause unnecessary disputes. If you must buy this brand, then she really likes this brand. The same brand is expensive and cheap. You can choose according to your own strength. Just hobby.
If you must buy an expensive object as a wedding gift, this will also listen to her heart. Generally speaking, the two finally become a family, and life is to live together. Buying a luxury object that exceeds her family purchase ability. For women, it may be more considered. I think of things that protect their living standards in the future, such as buying a house, buying a car, etc. Of course, if you really think about it in the future, men should think so. Buying it is the two of you. Do n’t you think of going together? So she wants to buy luxury goods that have been paying than your ability to pay so much. Do you also want to see your sincerity about her, is it not good enough to make her feel at ease with you. Of course It is impossible to give her a sense of security, and only you can give you a sense of security, so pay more attention to your lover, and think more about your future. Your life is not just such a thing. If Just such a thing must endure each other, so there will be a lot of tolerance. Communication is the best medicine, not a blind compromise.
For his girlfriend, you must buy Tiffany's diamond ring, otherwise there is three levels of problems without getting married. The first level is also the lowest problem. That is the economic situation in your family. When a friend buys Tiffany, then you must compromise this, and you must pick a big one. The research practice of the second level of problems is to stand in the middle. Your economic situation does not meet Tiffany's standard, but you can get a little bit hard to grit, then you also need to compromise. The most serious problem in the third point is that the economic level of your two is the level of ordinary families, and the Tiffany ring that girlfriend wants to make you be a cow and a year, or more. I don't think this is this. It should be compromised. Although getting married is a lifetime, it is unnecessary to spend such expensive money to reach a height of a luxury item. I feel that I feel that it is reasonable. You and your girlfriend can easily change your thoughts for so long. One way is that you take a thing that equates the same price with Tiffany's diamond ring. After comparison She knows that the value of this diamond ring has been reduced, making him feel that it is not worth the price to buy a diamond ring. The other is to say that he has a wish, saying that we are very difficult to buy Tiffany's economic situation now, but after three o'clock, what standard I reaches one of the standards, I will definitely make you a diamond ring. At least it is a bracelet to satisfy such a wish of his wife.
If that the above two methods are not available, your girlfriend is to insist on buying Tiffany diamond rings, otherwise you will not get married, beyond your two economic levels, I think there is a delay, that is, you also pretend to be pretended , Very tough attitude. I showed that I did not buy a diamond ring for you, but said that the price of this diamond ring had exceeded the ability of our family. I can earn 60,000 yuan each year. Money should buy a diamond ring, this should not be a life attitude. I think your girlfriend will definitely be considerate of you. Buying one good, this is understandable, but also look at the actual situation. And what I want to say is that if you have compromised this time, you are in your family, I am afraid that there will be a lot of places to compromise in the future.
I think when my girlfriend proposes to my boyfriend to buy a diamond ring as a premise of marriage, in fact, it is indispensable for girls. For many girls, they also have their own circle of friends and good girlfriends. When friends are together, girls will inevitably mention their boyfriend, and if you are married She did not have a diamond ring, which was a more embarrassing thing for girls. Even if the relationship between the two of you is better, it is the matter between the two of you, there is no way to describe outsiders. So it is normal for your girlfriend to have a diamond ring, so that at least when chatting with friends, there will be nothing to say and not embarrassed. As a boy, you may think that this is a girl's vanity, but in fact, it is not. Think about it. According to an example, as a Sina, when the bride did not prepare a new suit for you when you got married, let you wear a suit you usually wear to the wedding scene. So what will your mood be? It must be uncomfortable. The same scene can also be used on girls. As a quasi -bride but did not receive a diamond ring prepared by his husband, even if you prepared other platinum wedding rings alive, but at the scene of the exchange ring at the wedding, the camera will take your ring at that time Entry. At that time, there is a shiny large diamond ring, or even a small diamond ring, but it is always much better than not.
I. As a girl, I think this requirement is not too much. You can talk to your girlfriend, even if you can only buy a small small diamond ring, it is much better than no.
In fact, I can understand that your girlfriend must buy Tiffany diamond ring, otherwise the behavior of not getting married is actually really acceptable, because after all, every girl may have fantasized this matter, it may be for you for you This is a bit unrealistic, but in fact, it is quite important for girls, because after all, everyone has imagined that the day of marriage will become a princess, so this diamond ring is very important for girls. Really, it is really. It just shows you love her, and then if you do n’t, I think he may be a little disappointed, because after all, the film and television drama that everyone has seen from childhood to big, or cartoon, as long as you are married, you will wear a diamond ring right. Let's, I think she can actually understand the behavior of her diamond ring, but Tiffany seems a bit expensive, right, he may want the best, but if your financial ability cannot satisfy her. I think tell him frankly, and then tell her, you can't buy Tiffany diamond ring, and then you ask if he can buy one thing. I think if he really loves you, She will not make you difficult to make you too difficult, and then I think that the diamond ring of any brand is okay. He should feel very happy. If you love her enough, in fact, it is important to have that form. Is it really not important to Tiffany!
If you do this. If she still does not get married without Tiffany's diamond ring, I think the two may really come to the end, because after all, the biggest concession has been made. Right, I think this matter may require two people to achieve an agreement. If he can't even compromise this, it may be more difficulty in the future.